I Ching

Like an ancient old-growth forest – where the subtle play of light, texture and shadows is the product of a process measured in centuries and inches – most things of lasting value develop gradually, at their own pace.  The ability to learn from experience – one of humanity’s greatest treasures – implies constant yet gradual progress.  The combination of stillness within and determination without are the essence of this condition.  Good things sometimes sprout quickly; the truly delightful take much longer.The principle of gradual development applies also to human relationships.  For love, marriage and business relationships to endure, progress must be slow but steady: slow enough to allow for the bonds to knit properly; steady enough to move in the right direction.

You can’t expect to have everything all at once.  Development must be allowed to take its proper course; events must neither be rushed nor manipulated, but allowed to unfold in due course.  In this way, you will come to enjoy long-lasting relationships, and achieve success in the world.

1. A lonely young man sets forth on his own, and his perception of the overwhelming challenge before him makes him cautious and careful.  Employ such caution, and persevere, and you will have good fortune.  When situations are allowed to develop gradually, liabilities can evolve into assets.
2. You reach a point of rest and safety: an initial level of success.  The way ahead appears clear and bright.  It is right for you to feel pleased about your personal progress.  The timing is ideal for expansion, especially in the area of personal relationships.
3. Have you ever soared too far, too high, and found yourself in a hostile place? Perhaps even lost your way? Sometimes we don’t let things develop quietly, but forge ahead rashly to find ourselves suddenly caught up in a struggle.  In such instances, the first requirement is to slow down – or climb down – very, very carefully.
4. When you find yourself in an awkward position, apparently through no fault of your own, find a safe place to land temporarily, and regain your balance.  When tumbling through the air, it furthers one to find a net.  Quickly.  And then rest there awhile before getting back on the tight rope.
5. When moving rapidly towards the heights, it’s common to leave old friends and past associates behind.  In such circumstances, you may come to feel isolated.  Periods of isolation and withdrawal are unavoidable in the process of self-development, and are a kind of social sleep that makes re-awakening possible.  Even though a period of withdrawal can complicate your life for a time, you must move through these times with patience – rather than ignore your more critical needs for privacy and concentration.
6. When gradual development reaches its climax, supreme good fortune results, and a great example is provided for others.  Be true to your own goals; even though they may appear selfish to others, your success in achieving them brings great value to the life of those around you.